Tuesday, April 04, 2006

Wrong Reason...

"I know you care about me and you don't want to see me get hurt, but I am not going to be alone for the rest of my life and I am sick and tired of living the single life"
This is the reply from my friend across the Pacific Ocean... Yes, he has chosen to be with this woman who cheated on him 4yrs ago... She has a long history of cheating / breaking men's heart and full of lies... Well, she is still married to her husband, whom she has cheated on, and left him and their beautiful 1yr old for another surfer... and now she is leaving this surfer and planning to fly across the ocean to be with my friend... Dramatic hey? ...

Well, I was quite upset when I read his reply... I mean, if only he had told me he wanna give it a go just for love, I would have been very supportive... But it is so obvious that he has chosen this path because of convenience, and an easy way out for him just because he is afraid of being single and alone... which seems so wrong!! ...*Sigh*... He is only 27, and why is he so "desperate" for? ... =/

I have friends whom I care a lot, and sometimes it really hurts so much to see them doing things to hurt themselves.. or seeing them exposing themselves vulnerably for others to hurt them... Yet I feel powerless as I can't protect them and they are in the situation where they are so blind / deaf to take any advises... I dislike this feelings... and when I feel this way, I can only remind myself --- It's REALLY None Of My Business !! ...... zZ Zzz Zz Zzz Zzz zzZ ZZzz z....

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